Before I fully understood the way of the Dao I stumbled on a lot of problems in our modern western society. People have their reality and decide to force their wisdom up on you, some even without realizing. This society is stressful because people demand from you and you have to pass their expectations. There is a narrow degree between personal influence and professional growth. Something that makes you stronger doesn’t have to be a part of your reality which strikes you personally. I realize that everyone has his “gravitation,” and the more energetic you demand, the stronger this becomes, influencing other people to your will. Most people don’t realize this, but you can fully decide for yourself if you want to be a part of the reality of others.
Every person has a zone of comfort, a zone of reality – the zone that explains what is possible and what not. I will refer to this as “personal zone” in this article. This personal zone is critical for achieving your reality. This zone is defined slowly since birth and can vary a lot from your experiences and living style; this is why the way of Dao is individual for everyone, at some point, we step on a train going on our journey, that is what is naturally needed for personal development. At some point people start to question their reality, I believe this a natural process everyone has to undergo, as I examined my reality I began to collect funds for my education on the Wudang Mountains, after five years of hard work in Vienna I was finally able to leave my country.