I saved for six years to train in the Wudang Mountains. When I finally got there in 2012, I'd spent everything just to make that year happen. My account was at zero. And here's the problem with being a foreigner in China - you can only stay for one year maximum before you have to leave. You can come back later, but first you have to get out.
The Welfare Fraud
Here's another part I'm not proud of. She and her mother were collecting AMS benefits - that's Austria's unemployment and welfare service, the Arbeitsmarktservice. They were getting this money while she spent most of her time in Ukraine and was making money from the online stores.
What She Stole
Let me be clear about one thing. I built those shops. I wrote the design. I wrote the code. Across all five stores, I wrote around 1600 product descriptions. Every single one by hand. This was before ChatGPT existed. Just me and a keyboard and too much coffee.
These are the stolen stores still running with my work: https://www.wudang-store.com/ and https://internalwudangstore.net/
What These Stores Actually Are
They're dropshipping operations running off AliExpress. She's not in Wudang. She's not sourcing authentic items. She has no connection to any Wudang tradition or teachers. She just places orders from cheap suppliers and marks up the prices.
Where to Actually Buy Wudang Items
I'm not just writing this to call out my ex. If you actually want Wudang items, there's a legitimate option.
My feelings after all this:
Here's a short paragraph to explain my feelings. This is my personal view and maybe it doesn't fully reflect reality, but I want to express how I feel. I feel hurt by this situation. I put a lot of work into building everything from the ground up, and it's difficult for me to see that work continue without me. She joined in when most of it was already established. Yes, she helped with shipping and post office tasks - but that was mainly because I struggle with spelling on complicated forms due to my Asperger's. She often expressed frustration when she had to help with these things. In a company, the person who creates and builds something has a different role than someone who helps with logistics. I wanted the option to close this chapter myself so I could make a fresh start, and not having that choice has been hard for me. Throughout my life I've created many things, and I've also let go of projects when I felt they weren't working. I believe it's important that people build on their own efforts rather than simply taking over what others have created, and this situation doesn't align with that value.
